We all strongly believe that God created us to do life in relationships

Beltway Brothers for Christ (BBC) came together over 5 years ago and took on that name because we originally met at the 59 Diner that was located on I10 and the Beltway.  Now we meet at the Corner Bakery on Echo Lane and, since COVID-19, we meet a lot on Zoom.  In that time, we have learned a lot through study and sharing and also walked with each other through a lot of life challenges typical and not so typical of a group of middle-aged Christian men in our culture and our times. Through the Holy Spirit, we have been able to create a safe and encouraging place where we can get real, lean on each other, and get through to the other side learning from our mistakes and becoming better men, husbands, fathers, employees, and neighbors.  It is something we all look forward to each week and that God has used to make such a positive difference in each of our lives.  We all strongly believe that God created us to do life in relationships through community and brotherhood and this is a core part of how that happens for us each week.  Look for us if you’re ever in Corner Bakery from 6:30-8:00 on Tuesday mornings.  – Mickey Peters

Incredible bond with friends that I never expected to meet

Brandon Urech (BOSS – Brothers of Scripture Study) – “My FinD small group has brought an incredible bond with friends that I never expected to meet, and I am very thankful for them.

It has been a little over three years since joining BOSS (Brothers of Scripture Study) and the weekly commitment is just what I needed, and I still continue to feel the same way each Friday many years later.

Joining our group was a bit unique where BOSS had already been formed, but some of the original guys left the group and they were looking for a few others to potentially fill the gap. I could not have felt more welcome from day one.

Prior to joining BOSS, I really did not take the time on a consistent basis to read through scriptures of the Bible or even stay disciplined with prayer or know what to pray for or what to pray about. This group has helped me stay unwavering in my journey as a Christian man and as a result, I feel like a better man, husband, and father.

What I really enjoy about the men in our group is that I know that I can lean on them or turn to them if any need arises, and there’s no doubt that the feeling is mutual.

I know that we have and all will have struggles in our lives and knowing we can count on each other is an awesome feeling. What a blessing BOSS has been to me and I hope that our neighborhood small groups continue to grow because I genuinely feel my experience is no different whether a group has been together for 6 months or more than 15 years.”

We are living and sharing life together

John Todd III (BBC – Beltway Brothers in Christ) – “Living Life Together – My Small Group has been a huge blessing for me in many ways.

Going into our 5th year of existence I am bonding with other men that otherwise I would have never met in my normal daily routine.  I am able to share my experiences in a real and authentic way with a group of men that know me on a deeper level rather than just scratching the surface with pleasantries.

Having the consistency of our weekly meeting time with my “brothers” provides a sense of comfort and stability that keeps us focused, grounded and accountable to each other that I hadn’t had at any other time in my life.

We do our best to either study a book of the Bible, a book to help us be better husbands and fathers, a video series, or some other topic that is of interest.

We are not regimented, but we always find time to discuss what’s going on in each other’s lives.  We don’t mind that it took us over a year to study the book of John!

In the short time that we have been together we have experienced a lot of highs and lows that we have been able to share in the security of the group; divorce, marriage, children graduating high school, college, marital strife, parental and sibling issues, job changes, stress, and the list goes on.

We are living and sharing life together in our small group.

Brotherhood bond

Trae Roby (MIA – Men in Armor) – “What is it like to be in a weekly men’s discipleship group?

To me, it can best be described like this.  It’s not that old friend you might have that you enjoy calling every once in a while to catch up, socialize with and stay in touch periodically.

It also is not that business associate at work that you can relate too, and you have fun business discussions with comparing notes, maybe even socializing with every now and then. These friends can certainly be awesome friends, but maybe are not the ones that you elect to share everything with.

A small group friend develops into much more than that.  It develops into what I call a genuine, real friend.

A friend that you want to / can peel your onion back to the core.

A friend that you meet with regularly on a weekly basis, and can lay it all out there with, you can pray with, you can study the Bible with, and you can be rest assured that everything shared together will be kept in the strictest of confidence.

A friend you can be totally candid with and trust will give you honest, solid feedback and opinions.

A friend that you share that commitment with for personal accountability.

A friend you certainly socialize with as well.

He is there for the same reason you are – wanting to form that brotherhood bond and grow close together. He wants to be there for you!

NOW IMAGINE HAVING AN ENTIRE SMALL GROUP OF THESE TYPE OF FRIENDS.  Pretty awesome, huh?!

Being in a men’s small group has certainly met and exceeded my expectations. I would encourage you to give the thought some consideration! You will not regret your decision, I promise you!”

Nothing like my original expectations…

David Michels (IHOPpers) – “A couple of years ago, a good friend of mine asked if I would be interested in joining a small men’s group for fellowship and Bible study.  I was intrigued, but apprehensive never having been in a similar group before.  I thought it would be awkward and uncomfortable.  Frankly, I was also a little worried opening up in a setting like that would expose me as the sinner I am.

The group has been nothing like my original expectations.  We laugh and joke a lot and share practical advice about how to keep God at the center of our lives as fathers, husbands, and friends.  As for being exposed, to my pleasant surprise, we all struggle and, in many cases, with the same issues.  Consequently, there is little judgement and a lot of understanding and prayer.

As a man, it is difficult to admit I need help and guidance.  The truth is, we all fail at times and acknowledging that fact helps with acceptance and with learning valuable lessons from our mistakes.  This group provides a supportive setting to discuss concerns, keep us accountable, and become better leaders for our families.  I am very grateful for the guys in my group and look forward to our meetings every Wednesday.”

Exploration of our faith has sparked growth, individually and corporately

Bill Jamison (BMOC – Blessed Men of Christ) – “When I was presented with the opportunity to join a small men’s Christian group a few years ago, I was reluctant.  However, the opportunity and experience has been a blessing.

I have gained deep and meaningful friendships with other men sharing like minded values.  The exploration of our faith as a group has helped me become a better Christian, father, and husband.

Incidentally, my involvement with the group has sparked a larger exploration of my faith spiritually and academically.

I am grateful for my personal growth and excited for the group’s continued growth and positive impact on touching others’ lives.”

I thank God every day for them

Scott Hollingsworth (Misfit Boys) – “It seems like so long ago that a handful of us started to gather at La Madeleine for breakfast.  The mornings were early, the food was good and the company was great.  We would check in with each other, spend time in His word and part our ways for work.  At first, there were no rules except do the best you could to try and make it.  It’s always been the six of us for as long as I can remember.  The venue changed from time to time and so did our relationships with each other which over time became strengthened through Christ.

Little did I know that this unlikely group of men would soon become my lifeline.  As our group aged, our relationships became more mature, open and honest which could only be achieved through trust in one another and the work of the Holy Spirit.

In 2013, my youngest daughter was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes and a few months later my wife underwent brain surgery in an attempt to cease her seizures.  In 2014, I found myself in the fight of my life to protect my children from a broken marriage that I could not fix.  In 2015, our marriage ended and I thought the boat had steadied.  In early 2017, I had to sell the house and move in order to try and keep the girls at the same high school.  Little did I know safe refuge of the bayou banks would not be safe harbor in the wake of Hurricane Harvey.  We lost most of everything, as many of us did.  We had each other, though.  If all this was not enough, in March of 2018 the girls’ mom suddenly and unexpectedly passed away.  Yes, the alcohol killed her, and with her death came the end of hope that the girls would ever have their mom back.  One could count on single hand how many times they saw their mom since 2014.

Coming back full circle to my small group brothers.  My brothers, you know who you are and I know WHOSE you are!  I would not have been able to navigate, let alone survive, any of this without each of you.  God planted each of these men and their hearts in seats at the very table at which I sat.  Not knowing all this time God was equipping each of us for what lie ahead.  I thank God every day for them!  This group of men have been there to carry me literally and figuratively through it all.”

Come witness iron truly sharpen iron

Dave “The Wave” Harkins (SOBs – Sons of the Bible) – “If you want to reach maximum personal growth and fulfillment in life – it takes God, working thru others, to transform your heart and journey ahead. If you are seeking authentic relationships that you can confidentially share life’s struggles and challenges you are up against – the small group experience will offer beneficial answers you might not realize on your own. In addition to developing close friendships – you will develop a unique strong brotherhood that will be a life-long resource to share, learn, grow, and assist you through very tough personal struggles such as death, divorce, tragedies, addictions, personal sins etc.

It’s one thing to read the Bible or other resources by yourself – but entirely different to have life applications with powerful member testimonies and joint learning along the way – especially from others that have either been thru it, are going thru it, or will go thru it.  As guys, we naturally hold our pride shields around us – where the devil thrives and succeeds – and we don’t grow – and even worse – we wallow secretly in our own shame, fear and doubt. This is EXACTLY where God and small groups work best. Small groups emphasize transparency and confidentiality and are vital to the sharing, healing, and growth of the entire group. Trust for all is built over time and incredible Godly growth and transformation is experienced by all – a part of HIS love for all involved.

If you want to be stronger in this world for yourself and for others – especially in the roles as man/husband/father/follower – please join a discipleship small group now!  Join a WSGN discipleship group, or if you’re not sure you’re ready for that level of commitment, get a “trial run” small group experience thru your church’s Men’s Life.  God may even put it on your heart to form your own Christ centered group.  If you’ve never done this before, let go of your fear that you can’t “catch up” or that you might “fall behind”.  God will amazingly meet you where you are in life.  Discipleship group members have a deep respect that we are all unique and are at different places and moving at different speeds. Come witness iron truly sharpen iron.

They help me live my life for Jesus Christ

Bucky Farrow (ManU – Man United) – “Being part of a men’s group through FinD is the single most impactful component of my spiritual growth.

Every week in ManU we experience a mingling of souls, whereby we are challenged, supported, and encouraged by brothers who share our struggles.

The men in our group have mucked out my house after Harvey, helped me through a difficult back surgery, and been the best dudes to hang out with.

The Lord guides our steps but I truly believe much of this happens through our interactions with like-minded believers. I am so thankful to know these men as they help me live my life for Jesus Christ.”

The true gift of a men’s small group is the relationships

David Bradley (MoB Squad – Men of the Bible) – “I had settled into some success in my law practice after moving to Houston to open our firm’s Houston office in 2008. My family life was great. But, I felt like there must be more.

I had devoted so much time and energy to our move from Dallas and launching our firm’s new office, that I had neglected myself. When not working, I spent most of my time with my wife and our family. The move was originally a financial strain and it was tough to crack the Memorial social nut. I really had no meaningful friendships outside of my family. I felt like I was wandering.

After an MDPC Men’s Life session on spiritual community, I met with Pastor Brett Hurst who directed me to the WSGN and Clint Harrington.  Like so many men on the Westside of town, I had a breakfast meeting with Clint which led to my joining the MoB Squad (Men of the Bible).

The MoB meets every Friday for fellowship, prayer and Bible Study.  We have covered prayer, the Holy Spirit and a variety of books from the Bible in our lessons. But, the true gift of a men’s small group is the relationships.  The men of the MoB know me best, my strengths and weaknesses.  There is no judgment, only support and encouragement.

I cannot think of a life circumstance or condition that has not been faced by at least one member of the group. Together we have shared many highs and lows. The group has given me direction and peace.  I no longer feel astray and alone but have confidence in the strong Christian friendships acting as a support and rock through life’s ups and downs.

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